Is it just me ? #2ndEdition.

So here’s a second edition to the “Is it just me?” Blog that I had shared a few days earlier . A little bit of OCD , a little bit of weirdness .  (Still very new here though so getting the hang of blog matter to provide on my blog) 

Let’s just begin already – 

  • Check the radio – So if I’m listening to the radio whilst my husband is driving with a thought in his head of why he married such a weird headed psycho , and we reach our destination , I kind of NEED to check every single radio stations before I leave . Like what if some good song is coming? I need to know which of my favourite song I’m missing out on , right? 
  • Be extreme – I love my coffee/tea or anything that I consume , either completely hot or completely cold . I have never learnt what grey is . I go either totally black or totally white . This basically applies to my personal life and emotions as well . 
  • 100% perfection – So my phone is always 100% charged before I leave my house . I’m NOT okay with 99% , I honestly feel sometimes I have a little weird case of OCD going on in my head . I need to charge my phone a 100% and keep my phone on power save mode with that ugly yellow thingy for the battery level to show on my screen . 
  • Dad is ALWAYS my No.1 – This isn’t any OCD feel that kicks in every now and then.( not like I buy a phone again and again) but every single phone that I’ve got since the past few years , has the first photo of my father and I in the gallery and that same photo has been my wallpaper in every single phone that I have used. Come what may , my wallpaper hasn’t changed , and never will . Also , the first number I save is of my late father’s last two numbers that he used . EVEN TODAY . EVEN AFTER SO MANY YEARS . 

So I hope you liked reading what you read ! Please feel free to share your thoughts (and criticism of course if you will) I’m more than happy to welcome any and every feedback! 

Lots of love and positivity to every single soul of there ! xx 

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The Valiant Blogger Award! 

So it’s just an edited version of “why naughty cub?” For my participation in The Valiant Blogger Award and I’m restricted to limited words .

Here goes …….. 

Life as we know – is filled with a lot of emotions. Everyone’s life is different . You might be able to relate to a few situations you see or hear about , but you cannot feel the same pain! Everyone’s intensity differs. 

The naughty cub comes from a very emotional place in my heart . I have a lovely mother who is as strong as a tigress and after going through the roughest patch in our lives , a person came and told my mom she’s a tigress and her kids (my brother and I) are her cubs! We three created our lives on our own soon after my father left us to be in a better place , in heaven . We stood by each other and faced our pain as gracefully as we possibly could! We didn’t realise how strong we were until being strong was the only option! Today after five years the pain is same each and every day of the loss but I’ve learnt to live as strongly as I can and not just survive! My family knows me as that kid with this naughty yet innocent smile and sparkling tiny eyes when I smile . I made my pain my biggest strength , today I can go through any circumstances whether good or bad with equal strength and positivity ! 
I’ve read this saying that really got me going stronger than ever – GOD GIVES HIS TOUGHEST BATTLES TO HIS STRONGEST SOLDIERS!

Please check the link out for a wonderful source of positivity ! 

 https://dailywarriors.wordpress.com/2017/01/30/valiant-blogger-award/

I would like to nominate avid observer for the same!

Why “The Naughty Cub” ? 

So I came across a lovely blog out here asking to describe your life in two words (Thank you Avid observer for that) and came to think of it … What is life in two words after all? 
As I replied to that post I had these thoughts coming within about everything that I am and everything that I have seen . After having a flashback of the not so good side of life , I only had two words in my mind with what I could proudly relate my life to – ” Fearless Cub” 

Life as we know – is filled with a lot of emotions. Everyone’s life is different . You might be able to relate to a few situations you see or hear about , but you cannot feel the same pain! Everyone’s intensity differs. 

The naughty cub comes from a very emotional place in my heart . I have a lovely mother who is as strong as a tigress and after going through the roughest patch in our lives , a person came and told my mom she’s a tigress and her kids (my brother and I) are her cubs! We three created our lives on our own soon after my father left us to be in a better place , in heaven . We stood by each other and faced our pain as gracefully as we possibly could! We didn’t realise how strong we were until being strong was the only option! Today after five years the pain is same each and every day of the loss but I’ve learnt to live as strongly as I can and not just survive! 

I have been a naughty kid since forever , even post my marriage I haven’t changed a bit . My family knows me as that kid with this naughty yet innocent smile and sparkling tiny eyes when I smile . 

So yes , the naughty cub is never going to grow I laugh my pain off and try to make others smile too with the same. I wouldn’t ever wanna show anyone the pain within . I don’t want sympathy . I want strength . Strength comes from within.. I made my pain my biggest strength , today I can go through any circumstances whether good or bad with equal strength and positivity ! 

I’ve read this saying that really got me going stronger than ever – GOD GIVES HIS TOUGHEST BATTLES TO HIS STRONGEST SOLDIERS! 

So all in all , this is my final thought – BEING STRONG IS IN YOUR HAND! Nobody can decide or feel what you have been through and how strong are you . You are the owner of your own mind and heart , never let anyone pull you down!

 

Happy Mother’s Day ! 

So since it’s Mother’s Day … greatest wishes to every mother on my behalf … I wrote a little something few years ago with connections to what I have seen in my life and felt and thought maybe I should share it and make others feel better if they have ever felt like they are on the verge of losing! 

Please have a look and of course , share it for your mother ! 🙂 

(Also , India celebrates on the 14th of May but every day should be a special day for the mothers , isn’t it ?) 

Dear women ,
It’s okay – if you are tired , Battles are never easy! 
It’s okay – if you feel the need of love , You deserve it! 
It’s okay – if you are on the verge of giving up , you have been a rock throughout your life! 
It’s okay – if you don’t live up to everyone’s expectations , Don’t they disappoint you too? 
It’s okay – if you become weak , You have been a pillar for everyone around you always. 
It’s okay – if you want a break , Go and pamper yourself! 
It’s okay – if things are out of control , Give it time! 
It’s okay – if you wanna surrender , BUT..TO YOURSELF! 
It’s okay – if you need moral support , who doesn’t ? 
Chin up! Be proud! Be You! 

Everything will be fine. You don’t have to wear the “strong” mask always! 
Take a tight hug from me ! I love you and you will always make yourself proud!