Why “The Naughty Cub” ? 

So I came across a lovely blog out here asking to describe your life in two words (Thank you Avid observer for that) and came to think of it … What is life in two words after all? 
As I replied to that post I had these thoughts coming within about everything that I am and everything that I have seen . After having a flashback of the not so good side of life , I only had two words in my mind with what I could proudly relate my life to – ” Fearless Cub” 

Life as we know – is filled with a lot of emotions. Everyone’s life is different . You might be able to relate to a few situations you see or hear about , but you cannot feel the same pain! Everyone’s intensity differs. 

The naughty cub comes from a very emotional place in my heart . I have a lovely mother who is as strong as a tigress and after going through the roughest patch in our lives , a person came and told my mom she’s a tigress and her kids (my brother and I) are her cubs! We three created our lives on our own soon after my father left us to be in a better place , in heaven . We stood by each other and faced our pain as gracefully as we possibly could! We didn’t realise how strong we were until being strong was the only option! Today after five years the pain is same each and every day of the loss but I’ve learnt to live as strongly as I can and not just survive! 

I have been a naughty kid since forever , even post my marriage I haven’t changed a bit . My family knows me as that kid with this naughty yet innocent smile and sparkling tiny eyes when I smile . 

So yes , the naughty cub is never going to grow I laugh my pain off and try to make others smile too with the same. I wouldn’t ever wanna show anyone the pain within . I don’t want sympathy . I want strength . Strength comes from within.. I made my pain my biggest strength , today I can go through any circumstances whether good or bad with equal strength and positivity ! 

I’ve read this saying that really got me going stronger than ever – GOD GIVES HIS TOUGHEST BATTLES TO HIS STRONGEST SOLDIERS! 

So all in all , this is my final thought – BEING STRONG IS IN YOUR HAND! Nobody can decide or feel what you have been through and how strong are you . You are the owner of your own mind and heart , never let anyone pull you down!

 

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Is it just me? #Relatable Post

So I have had a few OCDs .. severe ones ..SEVERE ! I was just wondering if it’s just me? 

Since I’m new to blogging I’ll give you bullets about a few things I will try and cover blog-by-blog . Here it goes – 

  • Stories about me .
  • Ideas for you .
  • Relatable posts .
  • Few pointers covering a certain topic .
  • Question and answers . (Yes, Agony Aunt on duty ) 
  • Suggestions for different daily life criteria.
  • A lot .. a lot .. ALOT more! 

So I’m done giving you a base which could totally be a whole new blog but somehow I ended up adding in this one itself . 

Let’s get back to the topic … 

Music system volume – I honestly cannot listen to the music system whether at home or in the car when the volume level is on some odd number . LIKE I CANNOT! I need to decrease/increase the level to an even number . I dislike odd numbers . 

Music : On ; Volume : 17 

(No thank you , OCD is kickin’ in please keep the volume on 16 or 18) 

Cupboard door left open – Yeah..show me a cupboard with an open door at 3 in the night , I’ll still get up and close it! (legit happens with me in my room) . I don’t like seeing the door open .. it gives me this weird annoying feeling and I need to close it to feel safe! Same goes with room door (but not always) 

Apps in my phone – I have this habit of clicking my home button and closing every single app that is open again and again. If I am opening my phone to check whatsapp , I’ll use whatsapp and then go to my home button and by default start sliding my finger on the screen to close all the open apps!

My coffee , my style So I have been a caffeine addict since almost 12 years now ( I know it’s not good , but it isn’t bad either ) I recently quit Americano (black coffee) and got back to my cold coffee routine. If I am sitting in a coffee shop (which I did every single day before my marriage) I had a pattern of arranging my coffee glass , my mobile phone , my chewing gum , my sunglasses , my bottle of water , my food , anything else that I’m carrying .  YES IT IS WEIRD I KNOW , My best friends made it a point to let me know every single day . 

Writing system – So if I am making a list of a few things and I don’t put a full stop in the first three points but I do put a full stop on the 4th point , I’ll put a full stop on every single line! I need my list to be like perfect when it comes to full stops or no full stops . Either use it everywhere , orelse don’t use it anywhere! 

I have a lot more weird traits … but for now this showcase of weirdness is more than enough , Lol . now since I’m writing it down and thinking about it , I realise I am screwed in the head like that! I shall try and do another blog with the same topic in the near future if required and if you all love it! 

Lots of love and positivity to every single soul out there! 

A Welcome Post. 

Hello to everyone out there who is investing their time in reading posts and stories which gives them an insight of various things in lives which they might/might not know….
I personally have a lot of stories to tell , ideas to give , incidents to share and mainly connect with one and all on a personal level. 

This is a whole new world to me – Blogging. I honestly am wondering how things will work out but I’m really excited too!

Lots of love and positivity to every single soul out there!